December 23, 2012
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It’s a wonderful life
Lies don’t end relationships. Usually the truth does.
I will always have problems trusting people. I’ll never think that anything will last. Friendships and relationships, all of them just seem doomed. But I still try, for the rest of my life, I will try.
If someone really wanted you, they’d actually put some effort into trying to get your attention and make sacrifices for you. They won’t just tell you they want you, they’d show you in every little way possible that they want you.
Everyone says you deserve better, but no one is willing to give it to you.
Relationships aren’t supposed to be easy. I’m willing to make it work if you are. As long as you put in effort, I will too. I don’t like when people give up so easily. I don’t think there’s ever really a right “time” to let someone go. If they mean something to you, you should try your hardest to keep them in your life no matter what. No one said finding the right person for you was a walk in the park.
I might not have you in my life, and I might never have you in it again. I might not be the first thought that comes up to your mind when you wake up, or the last one that leaves your head once you go to sleep, but I will always remember you and I will never forget you and you will always and forever be that one stage in my life where my first true love ever existed. And now I know, that when my kids ask me who my first love was, I’m going to dig for the photo album and show them a picture of you, not their father, not the man before him, no one else but you.
One of the best things in life is seeing a smile on a person’s face and knowing that you put it there.
Too often we don’t realize what we have until it’s gone, too often we’re to stubborn to say ‘sorry, i was wrong’ too often it seems we hurt the one’s closest to our hearts and we let the most foolish things tear us apart.
Don’t go the extra mile for someone who isn’t even worth the run.
I want to be hard to forget. I want to have the kind of impact on you where you know you’ll never find anyone who can take my place, because that’s what you are to me. I want it to hurt like hell when you see me. I want you to feel what you put me through.
I was born to be a little stubborn, to be a little bit bitchy, to push people, to push myself, I was taught to never take life for granted, to live a little, to love with everything I have to never give up, to believe in myself and most of all fight for myself.
Stop caring what people think. Stop swallowing your words. Stop taking caution in your actions. Listen to what you want, do what you want. This is your life. Live it.
Sometimes someone comes into your life that changes everything. Raises the standards, make you laugh, and makes you feel like you.
One day you’re gonna remember me and how much I loved you… Then you’re gonna hate yourself for letting me go.
You have the right to leave someone. But at least tell them why, because what’s even more painful than being abandoned; is knowing you’re not worth an explanation.
It’s funny how people change with alcohol in their veins. You see who they really are. You know deep down inside there’s nothing hiding behind their eyes. It’s just them without any lies.
I knew that I never meant a thing to you, I knew what you said to me wasn’t the truth. Maybe you just wanted someone, anyone so you chose me and then once you had me, you left me all alone to pick up the pieces that you broke.
Do me a favor? I know it isn’t your fault I don’t trust people or their word, but can you do one thing for me? Don’t make me a promise you can’t keep. Do not trick me into thinking you are always going to be there because let’s be honest, there is no way you could be unless you were attached to me. Then you would just get annoying. I know you’re going to lie sometimes, I will too. I know you’re going to get mad and frustrated and probably say some things you don’t mean…we all do. I’m not going to be unrealistic in the things I ask from you, this is it. I think with this I can always be happy, with you.
Everyone you meet comes with baggage. Find someone who loves you enough to help you unpack.
You absolutely destroyed me, did you know that? But you know what, I just wanna say thank you. I don’t regret meeting you, but I don’t wish you would magically come back into my life again because I believe God gives us someone like this for a reason. Someone who will hurt you a million times, someone who will leave you & not look back. But this person, they will make you a better person in the end. You will come out stronger than ever before and you will be happier without him than you were with him.
Two can play the game, but one of you can grow up and move on.
When people care about each other they always find a way to make it work.
Here’s a piece of advice: Never put your happiness in someone else’s hands.
I try to believe you, I don’t want to leave but I need to.
I whisper your name when I get cold at night, wishing you’d wrap your arms around me and put your feet on mine like you sometimes did. And I know I’ve been drinking too much, and the drugs you told me never to try don’t really keep the same company as they all promised me. They could never take the place of you in my head, in my heart. Nothing ever could. No one ever will.
Don’t say something unless you mean it.
Almost everyone you know, without exception, has their heart all wrapped around someone who will never love them back.
When someone shows you who they are, believe them the first time.
