January 7, 2013

• Dance the night away

  

  We all find ourselves in complicated situations.There is no relationship which isn’t defined with a complicated label. Yes, there are beautiful times full of sunshine and the purest of love, but those times do pass. The bad times pass, as well. Relationships are ever-changing, there is no perfect one. What makes a relationship perfect is your magnetic attraction of souls, the layers of each other that you’ve matched up on, and the possibility to take on”it’s complicated” together, as a team, instead of alone.

  
  

  I miss you always. Even when we don’t talk. Even when you think I don’t give a crap. Even when I’m the asshole you’d always wanted me to be, the asshole I told you I’d be. I miss you then. I miss you all the time. Everyday you stick in my mind like glue,or a scar, or a wound you like to show off your most prized possession. I miss you now, I miss you always.

  
  

  Celebrate the challenges as much as the joys, the loss as much as the gain, they are all part of the same dance.

  
  

  You see, you closed your eyes. That was the difference. Sometimes you cannot believe what you see, you have to believe what you feel. And if you are ever going to have other people trust you, you must feel that you can trust them, too—even when you’re in the dark. Even when you’re falling.

  
  

  When you meet the other half of your soul, you will understand why all the other lovers had to let you go. When you meet the one who deserves your heart, you’ll understand why you and all the others have to be apart.

  
  

  No matter what, once in your life, someone will hurt you. That someone will take all that you are and rip it to pieces and they won’t even watch where the pieces land. But through the breakdown, you’ll learn something about yourself. You’ll learn that you’re strong and no matter how hard they destroy you, that you can conquer anyone.

  
  

  I’ve learned that no matter how much I care, some people are just assholes. I’ve learned that it takes years to build up trust, and it only takes suspicion, not proof, to destroy it. I’ve learned that you shouldn’t compare yourself to others; they are more screwed up than you think. I’ve learned that the people you care most about in life are taken from you too soon, and all the less important ones just never go away.

  
  

  After all these months, all this time, so much has happened. The talks, the phone calls, the laughs, and the feelings. If I were to look back on them, I would never believe that that person was once me. I wouldn’t recognize that girl because she’s so different from me, but I guess changing and moving on is a part of growing up. I’m growing up and finding out what kind of person I want to be for the rest of my life. & maybe in the future, there are more changes to come, but as for right now, this is who I’m proud to be.

  
  

  People are often unreasonable, irrational and self-centered; Forgive them anyway. If you are kind, people may accuse you of selfish, ulterior motives; Be kind anyway. If you are successful, you will win some unfaithful friends and some genuine enemies; Succeed anyway. If you are honest and sincere, people may deceive you; Be honest and sincere anyway. What you spend years creating, others could destroy overnight; Create anyway. If you find serenity and happiness, some may be jealous; Be happy anyway. The good you do today, will often be forgotten; Do good anyway. Give the best you have, and it may never be enough; Give your best anyway.

  
  

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